6 Places

Bermuda
Fiji
Aruba
Hawaii
Sydney Australia
Kenya

I am a beach person, and these places have some of the most amazing beaches!!!!! Look at the black sand beaches of Hawaii! So freaking sexy!

5 foods

1 Rock Lobster tail with lots of butter and lemon

2 Blackened Mahi Mahi with Diablo Sauce

3 NY Strip steak Medium well please

4 Fresh water prawns

5 Red Velvet Cheesecake


That was hard becau se I love foooooood!

So you know I kept my brother's kids for 5 days without a change of clothes! I had been blowing his phone up and finally he came to get the kids.


He came walking his happy jack rabbit ass up like everything was ok


I turned around and looked at him like wtf?


and I felt like slapping the shit out him and his wife!

Four books

I just realized I was doing this thing backwards but OH WELL!!!! LOL

Anyone that knows me, knows that i keep my head buried in a book! I love to read! Four of my favorite books are:

Addicted by Zane



The Coldest Winter Ever


Shame on it All

and last but not Least the Twilight Series, because I couldn't pick just one:

3 films

3 films, hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm this was so Hard, because I am a movie buff!!!! Growing up we always went to the movies as a family and also the drive in and now me and my family do the exact same thing!!!!! In fact the kids are looking forward to seeing the Transformers 3 in Imax 3d, this weekend!

The first film is the Color Purple! Come on now, did you not think this wasn't going to make the cut!!!! This is one of the best movies ever made ....... I Know this movie back and forth! In fact, my cousins will sit up all day and quote movie scenes from this movie! Like "Sattin at jail, Sattin at jail til I done near bout rot to death, I wanna thank you Miss Celie for everything you done for me, I memba that day I was in the sto with Miss Milly, I was feelin real down, I was feelin might baaaad, but then I see'd you and I knows there is a God-t, I know'd there is a God-t..... can you finish the quote???? LOL

My second movie has to be The Green Mile, I love this movie ....I cried my eyes out when they killed John Koffey, like the drank, but not spelled the same! But for the most part, I laughed Especially when they threw Wild Bill in Hole and he said "All I wanted was me a lil cornbread, you motherfuckers, all I wanted was me a little cornbread" Lmao! !!!! We laugh everytime that part comes on!!!!!!!

Last but not least is Life.............enjoy the clip enough said........

Two songs

There is not a day that goes by that I DO NOT miss my father. I feel so lost sometimes. Even though I am a married woman, I called my daddy for everything, from repairs to killing a bug! LOL I am forever a daddy's girl! Also, July 1st in the one year anniversary of my nephew's death and I miss him, like crazy!




This is my CURRENT SONG OF THE MOMENT! Yes, I like ghetto music! Hey sue me! LOL

Ten Secrets

I saw this on Adrienne and Monique's blog and decided i wanted to to play along!

One picture!
I recently took this picture! I was not going to smile and Jaree said something that made me laugh! LOL

The tweet that made me livid

Actually, there were two tweets!!!!


Now I remember why I only follow @traycee30 intermittently. Her ass up here admiring foolishness in a damn suit smh

@traycee30 I forgot I be unfollowing yo ass...til I saw that pic and had the urge again lol

Now if that wasn't RUDE, I don't know what rude is!

As one of my fellow twitter friends said, Just because you put a LOL after a statement, doesn't make it any less RUDE!

I am not going to mention this person's name, but she has rubbed me the wrong way on more than one occasion!

The first time she pissed me off is when she called myself and a friend of mine (Adrienne) elitists, because she said we only talk to each other. First of all, I have been knowing Adrienne since 2005, through blogging. So she is like family to me! SEcond of all, that couldn't be further from the truth!!!!!

The second thing she did, was she went in on people for watching the BET AWARDS, saying we had to be idiots to watch the BET awards, BEt has never done anything good for the community, and a lot of other MEANINGLESS bullshit. I don't know who the hell she thinks she is, but I deleted her real quick, before I said something REALLY IGNORANT!

It made me wonder, if that person was in your face, would they DARE say that!
I know it's wrong, but I am from the WHOOP A TRICK ASS TRIBE, I don't play!

She really needs to go sit her little NEUROTIC ass down before her feelings get hurt! Seriously! That really made me HOTT! I was mad, because Tracy is one of the sweetest people on twitter. REally! And she is my girl and I didn't appreciate that foolishness!

You know it had to make me mad, if I dedicated a whole blog about it!

Some people should think before they tweet! Really!

and that's all I have to say about that!

My head is spinning

So much has happened since the last time I blogged. I found out I have diabetes, my cousin Tamiko died at the young age of 28, and June 6th was the one year annivearsary of my father's passsing. Oh, and I became a great aunt! LOL

When I found out I had diabetes, I was DEVASTATED .... I cried, and cried, and cried! You would have thought they told me I had a week to live. Then I thought about it, this is something I CAN CHANGE! I DON'T HAVE TO LIVE WITH THIS...with diet and exercise this can be beat. And so far, I have not done anything drastic and my bsl has been in the 90's!!!! Which is good! Made me even wonder if I had it in the first place .... The doctor already lowered my meds and told me to keep up the good work!

Then, I find out my cousin passed. This knocked me flat on my ass! When someone dies unexpectedly and when they are so young, it is mind boggling! She didn't have any health problems, but she did do a lot of things right before she passed, that has me wondering if she knew.... She even purchased a dress and said, this will be perfect for Saturday, she bought that dress the day before she died, and she wore that dress Saturday, just like she said, for her own funeral .. If you knew her, you would love her! She never met a stranger. she made a friend every where she went! Makes me sad! She left behind her husband Jamar and her 4 year old daughter BK (Brooklyn). My family was devastated by her passing. We still don't have closure, because the cause of her death is still unknown, pending autopsy results. You just never know when your time is up! That is why I TRY my best to live right.

On June 6th, it was hard of me to get out of the bed, everyone went to the cemetery, but I just COULD NOT.....I cried most of the day and night! You guys have NO IDEA, how much I miss my father . I was a daddy's girl to my heart. My dad and I were very close! I talked to him every single day and I am not ashamed to say he spoiled my ass rotten, even as a grown woman, up until he took his last breath!!!! My kids loved him so much! There is not a second that goes by, that I don't think about him! I still break down.... getting choked up right now, but I know he is with God and I will see him again one day!

I recently became a great aunt! My niece Khadejah had a beautiful baby girl! I have mixed emotions, but a baby is a blessing and I love her already! I was pissed off at first, because she had so much going for herself, but hey she still can get her education I am going to help her all I can! I had fun shopping for her! I went crazy in Babies R Us, I am ashamed to say how much I spent! Baptiste was looking at me like I lost my mind! LOL But, we needed some happiness amidst all the sadness that was happening.

They say what does not kill you, makes you stronger, and I can honestly say I am such a stronger person t han I once was.....

Until next time