Wednesday, June 20, 2007

being a mom to a teenager ......

is NOT EASY.....
Why can't they stay babies forever....
My oldest is so giving me the flux right now. He does not understand that he is NOT GROWN...
He wants to just hangout every single day, and come an go as he pleases......
Life is not all about KICKIN IT...
It's not bad for him to go out, but he thinks he supposed to spend the night out, every weekend at his friend Nic's.
It's cool sometimes, but he not only wants to spend the night out, he wants to spend days at his friend's house.


I was not allowed to do it and neither is he. That's it, and that's all...

His new favorite phrase is WHY CAN' T I.....

If I asked my parents why, I would need a new set of lips...

This boy is definitely working my nerves.....

He gets to do far more than I was ever allowed to do..

One thing he is allowed to do is have a girlfriend....
My dad would have killed me if I had a boyfriend at 14.....

He has alot more freedom than I ever had...
But you know the saying, give em an inch and they wll take a mile...

His dad is about ready to kill em..

LOL

I so miss the baby days.....LOL

4 comments:

Adrienne said...

NOT looking forward to the teen years!!!! But I understand what you are saying though. I couldn't spend the night ANYWHERE. My kids don't either UNLESS it's with Grandma! On RARE occasion, Jaelyn has stayed NEXT DOOR! lol

BonnieRose said...

It can't be easy.. sighs.. saying some prayers for ya right now sistah... u know i loveya!

malieta said...

I know where you are coming from...kids don't realize what they put us through. Just stay strong and hopefully he will see the love and "come around".

God Bless you!

Shai said...

My only child is almost 17. I am glad I am in good shape to take this. LOL. I cannot see being 50 or 60 with a teen like some folks I know.