Thursday, March 08, 2007

I am soooo angry......

I could spit fire.....Most of you know my relationship with my sister has been STRAINED....to say the least! As of TODAY, I am through! I love my sister, but I will love her from A FREAKING DISTANCE. I know the saying "Life is short", and it is, HOWEVER, there comes a time in your life, where you want to live DRAMA FREE. My sister has alienated everyone who loves her .....she attacks the ones who love her. She is very NASTY, COLD, AND DETACHED... I am too happy of a Person, to be AROUND that type of CRAP. I am not going to go all in the details, but my sister and I have had a HUGE FALLOUT, over something SO STUPID....

This is my feeling: My sister RESENTS ME! Because she is miserable, she's going through a divorce, she lost her house, she lost her car, her kids aren't in the school she wanted them to be in.... I have a WONDERFUL MARRIAGE, I just bought my first HOME, dh bought me a car, not brand spanking new, but new to me! I really think she envies that! I hate to think that, but I know in my heart it's true!!! My parents had already told me this, but I had problems accepting it!

I just can't believe she's acting like this..... I am not going to let it get me down. I will just keep my distance and pray for her and her children!

Dana

5 comments:

Adrienne " A little dramatic at times" said...

And that is all you can do...

BonnieRose said...

oh dana.. big hugs... i will be praying for u and ur sister.. and yes, ur right.. distance urself.. and yes, love her from a distance, and don't stop praying for her.. if it helps pour your heart out in words, and write her a letter in your own handwriting.. and make it a loving letter, no accusations, nothing like that... love really does have the power to heal.. it really does..
hugs

Jamillah said...

I am sorry that has happen. She will realize that she is unhappy and that taking it out on people is not the way to get happy. I will pray that you will come together again and that she will get her life back on track.

Chit Chat From Divagirlrn said...

Hugs to you Dana. I'm so sorry you and your sister aren't getting along. Just pray for her and pray that God strengthens you through this hard time. God will bring the both of you together.

Trice said...

I would have had some words with hubby. But I am so sorry that you and your sister aren't getting along. I know it doesn't make it any better but I had the same experience with some of my family... It happens just keep on pushin...They will come around and need you more than you need them!