Saturday, November 11, 2006

Women can be soooo

.....treachorous!!! Yesterday, I went to the club with dh, he begged me to go with him. He said that he needed my opinion on his music, so I obliged. Hence, now my Saturday will be spent with Jaree doing something crafty....LOL. I picked my mom up and we went shopping to get the perfect oufit, accessories, and boots. My mom bought everything, my very late birthday present....LOL When, I go out, especially with MY MAN, I have to be dressed to impress. Afterall, I am representing my husband. I was there helping him set up and then I went to sit down with RED, the other Dj's wife. Her sister in law came in and joined us at the table. I ordered two watermelon martini's (love them), I don't drink often, but every once in awhile an apple, mango, or watermelon martini doesn't hurt.....LOL Soon, the place was jam packed. Wall to wall people. I was sitting at my table when this girl walks over to DJ Freddie and just started grabbing him all over (in places that were not appropriate I might add) and his wife was sitting right there. She knew that was his wife too. Red, grabbed the girl's arm and told her to back off and she looked so dumbfounded, as if what she was doing was ok. I don't blame Red at all. This woman was sooooo out of order and she better be glad it was Dj Freddie instead of Dj Jaba(my dh) otherwise she would have gotten an apple martini bath! LOL

I cannot stand women like that .... She only did that to cause trouble. Why are some women like that??? I am the nicest person in the world, but if you cross me, IT'S A DONE DEAL! Well, her friends said she was drunk, but I am so tired of people using that as an excuse to do whatever the hell they want to do. If you know you are going to act like a SLUT, then don't drink. Plain and simple. It's all about Respect. I would never do that to someone else husband or boyfriend. It's so low class. Whatever happened to mysticism....Making a guy use his imagination. Not throwing yourself outthere like a t-bone steak. Some women have NO CLASS!

I have had to turn into SUPER BEYOTCH, a couple of times, because some women just can't help theirselves. They want to hang out at the dj booth, grab all over the dj, pull the dj out of his booth to dance with them, you name it I have seen it. It is honestly one of the reasons I stay at home. Because I have a really bad temper at times and before I would know it I would be strangling somebody. I have put all those foolish ways behind me and have since changed my life. However, if you back me into a corner, you know the rest....LOL

My mom says this has been going on since the beginning of time, you have some women that don't wan't their own man , they want yours. All you have to do is trust your man and watch that woman.....LOL. I will add, that I have 100% trust in Baptiste, he has NEVER in the 8 years we have been married, given me reason to doubt him. I know he loves me. With his whole heart and I am not a JEALOUS woman at all. I have too much self esteem for that. I have always conducted myself as a LADY, and I just do not understand women like that.....

Ok I am off my soap box now



em said...

first...watermelon martini...yummy! second..what a an evil bi*ch. i hate women like that!

elsa said...

The nerve of some women! I am not sure what I would do if it were my dh. I don't think it would be pretty though.

Chit Chat From Divagirlrn said...

I just don't understand some women either! The nerve!

Wife2TJ said...

I completely agree with you, I really don't understand people sometimes. Get your own damn man! I would be so pissed if someone did that to my man.

Gina (frazzledmom) said...

Hey Dana girl - I'm catching up on a week's worth of posts here.

This is so not OK. Women like this need to get a grip. The DJ's are in a tough spot - they are there to entertain, but not to be the entertainment, KWIM! It's not OK to grab them or come onto them whether his wife is there or not! I kinda wish that she had gotten a Martini bath!

Brown English Muffin said...

It's always so comforting when you can at least trust your makes a world of difference.

Plus my philosophy is if I woman wants to try and climb on top of my's up to him to push her off. If he doesn't push her off...I won't get mad...I'd just leave the two of them to have each other!!!

Why get mad over a man that want's another woman all over him.